Posted by Ken Lauher on Thu, Feb 02, 2012
Feng Shui isn't necessarily about clearing clutter, but in many homes, it definitely helps with clear-thinking and staying focused on your goals. Where do you start? Looking at a mess can seem overwhelming unless you develop an action plan and tackle one space at a time. Here are 5 easy tips to get you started.
1. Start with the kitchen - Do you expect -- and receive -- an avalanche every time you open your kitchen cabinets? Time to take stock and re-organize. Check the expiration dates on everything and toss the old stuff. If something's on the verge of expiring, Google some recipes and see how you might be able to use it ASAP. Nothing appeals? Toss it now and cross it off future grocery lists.
Moving down to your kitchen drawers, it's time to be brutal. Keep two of common utensils like spatulas and cake servers -- not five. Evaluate everything in your drawer. Have you used it in the past year? Do you foresee using it the future? If not, out it goes. Well, you may want to hang on to Grandma's french fry cutter, but only if it brings back fond memories. Then, make a commitment to slice some crinkle cut sweet potato fries and bake them up tonight.
When you're done with the great purge, set your intention to keep your countertops clear (think of creative places to stow appliances you don't use often, like the garage or basement) and to wipe off your stove every night after dinner.
2- Focus on your home office. - How can you bring your best self to the table for creative, fulfilling projects or even paying bills if you're sitting amidst piles of clutter? Take the same approach you did with the kitchen, and toss or shred junk mail, expired coupons, catalogs and old magazines.
Then create a sorting system you'll stick with. Buy folders or bins that are fun and inspiring so you want to use them, and make a place for bills, mail, receipts, magazines to read, etc. As papers pile up monthly, sort through and get rid of what you don't need.
Also, begin transitioning to a “paper-less office” by requesting electronic statements for your monthly bills. Scan in important paperwork when you do the monthly purge. You can store on your hard drive or securely online for an automatic back-up solution of important paperwork.
3- Create a leaner library. - Don't have a Kindle yet? Or maybe you're a bibliophile who can't bear to part with a book. Evaluate your the books in your home library the same way you evaluate other items in your home. Do you use it frequently? Does it bring you joy? Does it serve a purpose? Books you use for reference (and you can't find the equivalent online easily), books you read over and over again, or titles that make you smile when you see them deserve a space on your shelf. Donate the rest to your local library -- an organization of people who still appreciate books the way you do.
4 - Go for a photo finish. Photos, like books, accumulate with time. Piles of photos that need to be placed in albums, or photo albums that are falling apart, create emotional and physical clutter in your environment.
View photos objectively, rather than with sentiment, and follow these rules: Toss duplicates, unflattering pictures, photos that are too dark, too light, too blurry or too grainy. Now that you're left with the best, sort into relevant categories and place them in photo boxes. Find your favorites and put them in frames to hang down a long hallway, in the foyer, or on stairwell walls.
You might also scan your pictures (this is a great task to give to kids on a rainy afternoon), back them up, and stow the originals.
5. Create a sanctuary in your bathroom -- starting with your make-up drawer and medicine cabinet. - Ladies know it's hard to create a private space for rest and re-awakening when you can't find your mascara in the morning. The first step to a more zen bathroom is to clear the clutter, including toiletries, make-up, perfumes and lotions you don't use. This is also important for your health, since expired make-up, make-up that doesn't look quite right, or has a bad odor is spoiled and could be harboring dangerous bacteria.
The medicine cabinet is also an important space to keep clean, organized and clutter free. You don't want to be rummaging for a band-aid when you're bleeding and expired medications lose potency.
We've come full circle here -- start by checking expiration dates and tossing anything that's old or about to expire. Then toss anything you haven't used in at least a year. You might create two baskets or bins, and place all your make-up inside one. As you use a particular cosmetic, place it in the second bin. Anything in the first bin -- meaning you haven't touched it in a year -- should go. As you buy cosmetics, only buy products to replace ones that expire or run out.
Prevent “Clutter Creep” Now that you're finished, you don't want to go through that again, do you? Stay on top of expiration dates and sorting. Follow this rule with everything in your home: If it doesn't serve a purpose or bring you joy, out it goes.
With less “stuff” to worry about, you can focus on finding and living your true life purpose.
If I had to think of an easy way to help you get started and learn EXACTLY how to create attraction fast with Feng Shui… I would tell you to go check out my eBook “Feng Shui Secrets: What Everyone Should Know About How To Be Successful With Feng Shui.”
You can learn the BASIC of how to create attraction of money, love and career success and I also share with you some great ideas for inexpensive or free ways to implement Feng Shui, no interior design or expensive decorating required. Go get more information here:
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Posted by Ken Lauher on Tue, Jan 31, 2012
The master bedroom is one of the three most important areas in your home for a number of reasons. A good night's sleep sets the stage for a happy and successful life, where you can pursue your passion and live according to your true purpose. These Feng Shui bedroom tips will help you get to sleep faster and sleep better so you wake up feeling refreshed.
1 - Choose the right bedroom colors. - Light greens, light blues, and flesh tones are restful and peaceful. These “yin” colors promote a good night's sleep. If passion is important to you, as well, consider red accents, but avoid too many “yang” colors like red, yellow or orange if the goal is a good night's sleep.
2 - Block out light. - New York City living creates lots of light pollution from passing cars, streetlights and buildings. If you live in an urban or suburban area, use black-out curtains or shades to keep your bedroom dark and re-align your body's circadian rhythms (natural cycles of sleep and wake time) with your schedule. As an added benefit, many black-out curtains and shades also provide better energy efficiency, keeping your room cooler in the summer and holding heat in during the winter.
3 - Use the right sheets. - Pure, organic cotton bedding is good for the environment and good for you. It feels incredibly soft and natural, and is free of any dyes or artificial ingredients that can cause illness, allergies and discomfort.
4. Set your bed in the command position of the room. - You should
position your bed so that it has a view of the door but is not directly in line with the door. Any other positioning may leave you feeling tired come morning, and can contribute to illness or headaches.
5. - Celebrate nature. - In my
Feng Shui consultations, I often recommend potted plants or fresh cut flowers. If you don't have a green thumb or don't have enough natural light in your bedroom to keep a plant alive, you might also introduce a rock garden, a seashell collection, or even a painting or photograph on the wall that depicts a beautiful, natural scene. You might also play nature sounds on your iPod before bed; the sounds of rain falling gently or the ocean's roar is soothing and can lull you to sleep.
6. Don't go overboard with technology in the bedroom. - In general, it's a good idea to keep computers, television sets and other electronic equipment out of the bedroom. If you have no other place for it, or if you like watching T.V. in bed, turn them off and pull the plug when you go to sleep. This equipment emits electromagnetic fields which may prevent a good night's sleep and some studies show that sleeping in close proximity to these devices may even be harmful to your health.
7. Use the power of scents for a good night's sleep. Lavender, sandalwood, chamomile, rose, cinammon, vanilla, bergamot, and honey are all proven to create a calming effect and bring on sleep. (Sandalwood, cinnamon and vanilla are also shown to be aphrodisiacs for another bedroom benefit!) Light incense, use a reed diffuser, inhale essential oils, or spray an all-natural linen spray on your sheets before bed for aromatherapy to sleep. Make sure you do not use artificial air fresheners that are loaded with chemicals.
If I had to think of an easy way to help you get started and learn EXACTLY how to create attraction fast with Feng Shui… I would tell you to go check out my eBook “Feng Shui Secrets: What Everyone Should Know About How To Be Successful With Feng Shui.”
You can learn the BASIC of how to create attraction of money, love and career success and I also share with you some great ideas for inexpensive or free ways to implement Feng Shui, no interior design or expensive decorating required. Go get more information here:
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Posted by Ken Lauher on Fri, Jan 27, 2012
Many years ago, I discovered my passion was Feng Shui. I began offering
consultations, and then started this blog to share my knowledge with a broader base. I began creating
eBooks and other information products, all to help people find their true path. That's the amazing thing about living in the moment and finding your true life purpose. You become immediately and intensely inspired to help other people do the same thing. You want to share it with the world.
We've all heard the phrase “
Do what you love and the money will follow.” We know that finding your passion is the way to profits, as a business owner or an employee. But what if you've discovered your true passion, that one thing you'd do for free even if no one paid you -- and now you're not sure how to make money at it?
Here are a few ideas.
1. Find a job or start a business in the field. Love video games? You might consider becoming a designer or a tester. (Now that's the life for some people!) Love color and interior design? Either start your own business as an interior designer or work for a firm that provides that service. It's a very clear path from what you love to how you can make money.
But what if your passion is a particular sport? The chances of becoming a professional athlete as an adult, when you haven't spent your life working toward that goal, gone to college for your sport of choice, and been drafted by a pro team, are very slim. But you can pursue your passion in other ways.
2. Teach it. - If you can't be a professional athlete, you might decide to be a coach and mentor the next Tim Tebow. Or maybe you love guitar so you become a private teacher. The expression, “Those who can't do, teach,” isn't quite true. You need the skills to be able to teach it well. But someone with the gift to teach find a wonderful, rewarding career or business.
3. Write about it. - In the age of the Internet and self-publishing, it's easier than ever to write about your passion and garner thousands of readers very quickly. Whatever your passion, you can start a blog, write a book, and make money from your efforts.
4. Talk about it. - This is different from teaching; I'm talking about public speaking to large crowds at industry events, seminars, and even your local bookstore. Whatever your passion, everyone has a story to tell. Why not parlay your story into a successful career as a public speaker?
5. Sell products related to your passion. - Someone passionate about a sport may open a retail store or an ecommerce site selling the tools of the trade. Whatever you're passionate about, there are products related to it. And if there aren't? Why not invent some, and then sell them, while getting others to sell them, as well.
6. Make a difference with it. - Whether you think locally or, through the Internet, globally, you can create a strong community around your passion. Think of this not so much as nurturing your prospects, but as sharing your passion with others, and the money will come.
7. Do it all. - Many successful entrepreneurs today have successful blogs and info-products, teach classes at local colleges, offer their services as a public speaker, and provide consulting services. In addition, their website may have an ecommerce component where they sell products related to their passion, and most entrepreneurs devote time to helping those less fortunate, mentoring others, or nurturing a community around their passion. (Or all three.)
Writer Les Brown said, “Aim for the moon -- if you miss, you'll land amongst the stars!" It's especially true when you're thinking of business ideas that will permit you to follow your passion and share your life purpose with the world.
If I had to think of an easy way to help you get started and learn EXACTLY how to create attraction fast with Feng Shui… I would tell you to go check out my eBook “Feng Shui Secrets: What Everyone Should Know About How To Be Successful With Feng Shui.”
You can learn the BASIC of how to create attraction of money, love and career success and I also share with you some great ideas for inexpensive or free ways to implement Feng Shui, no interior design or expensive decorating required. Go get more information here:
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Posted by Ken Lauher on Fri, Jan 20, 2012
When we are afraid, we are not LIVING in the moment or following our true life purpose. When we feel fear, we let primal emotion take over, and it holds us back from all we could be and accomplish.
Some say we are at a TURNING point, right now, and have been for many decades. The feeling is growing stronger, and reaching more people. We are being called to live a more enlightened existence, release our fears, and move to the next stage of our evolution. Are you ready?
If you've been wondering for some time what's holding you back, I'm going to share the ANSWER with you right now.
It's fear. When we begin to experience the emotional sensation of FEAR, our breathing grows shallow and we can't get all the oxygen we need. Our body releases the stress hormone, and we perceive that we must fight or run away -- the fight or flight mechanism. This comes in handy when we face true danger that requires this response. But most of the threats we sense, in today's modern world, are imaginary. Fear is in our minds.
Many people have described fear with the acronym: False Evidence Appearing Real. This is as good of a description as any other. Very few “real” threats exist for most people in today's world. Instead, we CREATE perceived threats and experience fear before something bad actually happens -- or before we even have compelling proof that something bad will occur.
I wrote about how
fear and fright affect us physiologically. But right now, I'd like to focus on something more positive: the release of fear and all that we can accomplish when we finally liberate ourselves from fear. Being free of fear lets us achieve all our goals, live in a state of gratitude and happiness, become a money magnet, and send love out into the Universe so we will receive the same back. What could we accomplish if we were not afraid? Anything.
Three Steps Toward a Better Life
There are three steps you can take that will help you release fear from your life.
But don't be dishearted if you don't ACCOMPLISH it right away, or if fear keeps creeping back into your life. Just as, after losing weight on a diet you need to continue exercising and remaining conscious of your eating habits to keep the weight off, you must be vigilant about freeing yourself from fear.
Whenever you see fear creeping into your life, follow these three steps to embrace reality -- a reality free from fear. Each time you do this, you'll get better at it until it feels natural. The instances where you discover yourself afraid and need to go through this process will diminish.
At the same time, you'll find that without fear, you are more effectively accomplishing your goals and attracting everything you want into your life. Go ahead. Get started. What have you got to lose... except your fear?
Step 1. Live in the moment.
Many times, our fear arises because we project into the future situations that won't ever come to pass. Or we think about something that happened in the past and predict the same undesirable result in the future. If we are truly living in the moment, then we're not thinking about a future that hasn't yet occured or dwelling on a negative past. There's no room for fear in the present moment, because nothing in the present moment is endangering you. (Again, unless there is real and imminent danger, in which case, action is needed and it's even more important to stay in the present moment and deal with the danger in the best way possible.)
When you are living in the present moment, there is either no reason and no room for fear.
Step #2: Having a hard time staying present?
Face your fear and question why it's there in the first place. Let's go back to that phrase, False Evidence Appearing Real. Once you START to call your fear into question, you'll realize it's based on false evidence.
Let's imagine that you meet an attractive person who is a friend of a friend. You want to ask them out, but you're afraid. What are you afraid of? Rejection? What if they say no? So what if they do. You asked. Would it mean you're completely undesirable and destined to remain alone?
Absolutely not. Rejection has nothing to do with you. Maybe that person just got over a bad relationship and doesn't want to date. Maybe they had a bad day at work and are just in a lousy mood. Maybe they're too shy to accept a date! You don't know, but any of your thoughts of your own unworthiness are unsubstantial. It's not about YOU... except in your own mind, which is the only place your fear lives.
Once you start calling your fears into question, you'll see how UNTRUE these projections are.
Step 3: Let yourself feel the fear.
Have you ever heard the phrase, “What we resist, persists?” If we resist our fear, it will only grow stronger. Trying to avoid it or ignore it doesn't work; it just makes it worse. Instead, let yourself feel the emotions. Again, be completely in the moment and present with your fear. Try breathing deeply to bring yourself into the present. Breathe through the fear. Let the fear flow through you... and out.
You'll realize you survived the emotion, the fear is gone, and you survived. Now it's time to accomplish your goals!
Your Next Step
Now that you have three tools to free yourself from fear, put it to action. Do the thing you fear the most, whether it's skydiving, public speaking or starting your own business. Each time we face fear -- in any context -- it weakens its grip on us.
Knowing we can face fear and survive, even thrive, our fears (all of them!) begin to diminish.
Remember, our coping mechanisms to liberate us from fear are like muscles... the more we use them, the stronger they grow. Take the steps to live an existence free from fear, where you can pursue and accomplish your goals and remain true to yourself.
If I had to think of an easy way to help you get started and learn EXACTLY how to create attraction fast with Feng Shui… I would tell you to go check out my eBook “Feng Shui Secrets: What Everyone Should Know About How To Be Successful With Feng Shui.”
You can learn the BASIC of how to create attraction of money, love and career success and I also share with you some great ideas for inexpensive or free ways to implement Feng Shui, no interior design or expensive decorating required. Go get more information here:
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Posted by Ken Lauher on Thu, Jan 12, 2012
Arthur Ashe, professional tennis player, once said:
“You’ve got to get to the stage in life where going for it is more important than winning or losing.” This can apply far beyond sports, to nearly any aspect of life.
If you are single and looking for romance, ask yourself:
“Am I really 'going for it?' Am I taking chances without concern about the end result?” It's easy to take a chance if you have nothing to lose, if the stakes aren't all that high to begin with. For instance, you might find it easy to go on a blind date, because if the person doesn't like you (or you don't like that person), you haven't lost anything other than one night and a few bucks.
However, it could be harder to approach a stranger at a party who you've already decided you like. If that person rejects you, you might spend the rest of the night feeling down or bad about yourself. It could even affect future dates by hurting your self-confidence. The stakes are higher.
Use Feng Shui to Boost Your Confidence and Take a Chance
The secret is to get to the point where winning or losing doesn't matter in anything you do. You can use Feng Shui to boost your confidence level so that whatever people think of you, it doesn't change your opinion of yourself. At this point, you'll take more chances. You won't hesitate to “go for it.” With this new attitude, you'll put yourself in more positions to find true love -- and truly “wow” people as you do.
Most people have far more regrets about “the one that got away,” or about things they wish they had done but never did, than about things they've tried and, perhaps, failed. If even a great athlete can say that it's not about winning or losing, you know it's true. To put a twist on an old expression: It's not whether you win or lose, it's that you played the game.
Take Action Now
What one step are you going to take today, right now, toward finding true love? What chance are you going to take? What are you going to do so that you can say you went for it? Comments welcome; I love your feedback!
Please share your successes, or just share how it felt to step out of your comfort zone below. And if you feel really serious about making a change in your current situation and get setup to make 2012 your best year yet, take a look at the
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If I had to think of an easy way to help you get started and learn EXACTLY how to create attraction fast with Feng Shui… I would tell you to go check out my eBook “Feng Shui Secrets: What Everyone Should Know About How To Be Successful With Feng Shui.”
You can learn the BASIC of how to create attraction of money, love and career success and I also share with you some great ideas for inexpensive or free ways to implement Feng Shui, no interior design or expensive decorating required. Go get more information here:
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Posted by Ken Lauher on Tue, Jan 10, 2012
It's one of the dangers of living in New York City, or anywhere that space is tight. People feel compelled to fill every empty spot with... something. Storage solutions. Furniture. Stuff.
Certainly, you can decorate in a way that makes the most of your space, including creating additional storage where it is needed and flexible seating arrangements to make guests to your home or apartment comfortable, too.
But true beauty and elegance is often found in the empty spaces of a home or apartment. If the energy in your home or apartment doesn't feel just right, it might not be that you need to add more furniture, carpeting, artwork, knick-knacks or even Feng Shui cures. Sometimes, you'll create elegance by taking things away instead of adding to the clutter and the energy around you.
Energy All Around Us
Every item we own or come into contact with has its own energy. When we add more “things” to our space, we are co-mingling that energy with our own. Before adding something to your space, make sure its energy will be a positive addition.
- Do you love it?
- Is it useful?
- Does it have a purpose (even if that purpose is just to bring you joy)?
Make Room for Your Own Energy
Just because there's an empty space -- perhaps a corner in your living room, or a blank wall in the kitchen -- it doesn't mean you have to fill it. The more open, empty space we have, the more chi can circulate through our home, carrying opportunities, good health, and happiness.We can permit our own energy to permeate our home, making it truly “ours,” a vehicle we can use on our journey to discover our true-self and begin to live the life of our dreams.
If I had to think of an easy way to help you get started and learn EXACTLY how to create attraction fast with Feng Shui… I would tell you to go check out my eBook “Feng Shui Secrets: What Everyone Should Know About How To Be Successful With Feng Shui.”
You can learn the BASIC of how to create attraction of money, love and career success and I also share with you some great ideas for inexpensive or free ways to implement Feng Shui, no interior design or expensive decorating required. Go get more information here:
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Posted by Ken Lauher on Sat, Jan 07, 2012
Are you holding yourself back from finding true love without even realizing it? Do you follow the same patterns, day after day, expecting different results? It was Albert Einstein who first pointed out that doing the same thing repeatedly while expecting a different result is the definition of insanity, but it's been repeated many times.
The expression applies to anything in life, whether you're talking about business, relationships or dating. But what about when you don't recognize the patterns, when you're so ingrained in your habits that you don't even realize you're doing the same thing and expecting a different outcome? Applying Feng Shui in our homes and apartments gives us an advantage when it comes to recognizing and changing the patterns that don't work in our lives.
Looking at Old Space and Old Habits with New Eyes
Do you know that feeling you get when you re-arrange your home, or add a new item, such as furniture, a throw rug or window treatments? Small and subtle changes -- sometimes as small as placing fresh flowers in a vase on your kitchen table -- can feel like a breath of fresh air. It can make our place feel like a whole new home.
When we shake up our surroundings in this way, it can help us break old patterns, but first we have to recognize those patterns. Taking a close look at the marraige and romance corner -- the back right corner of your home when you view it from the front door looking in -- may reveal some of your patterns or views on love and romance.
As you assess the space and your patterns, think about these questions:
- Do you wait for others to always take the initiative when it comes to romance?
- Do you come on too strong when you meet someone you like?
- Do you take time to listen to your date during that first conversation?
- Are you too quiet on first dates; do you listen as the other person reveals anything while failing to reveal anything about yourself?
Now Make a Shift
Whatever your pattern, consider doing the exact opposite next time you go out. If you don't usually approach attractive strangers, push out of your comfort zone and do it, wherever you might be. If you're more of a listener, try talking. If you dominate conversations, stand back and listen for a while.
Pushing out of your comfort zone will reveal important insight about yourself on your journey to find true love.
What step will you take today to change your love life? Why not take a chance and share with us how it worked out by posting below?
If I had to think of an easy way to help you get started and learn EXACTLY how to create attraction fast with Feng Shui… I would tell you to go check out my eBook “Feng Shui Secrets: What Everyone Should Know About How To Be Successful With Feng Shui.”
You can learn the BASIC of how to create attraction of money, love and career success and I also share with you some great ideas for inexpensive or free ways to implement Feng Shui, no interior design or expensive decorating required. Go get more information here:
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Posted by Ken Lauher on Thu, Jan 05, 2012
What we hang on our walls, from photographs to mirrors to artwork, says a lot about where we are and where we're placing our focus right now. If you're looking for true love, consider the message your home's decor sends to visitors (including romantic prospects) and to the Universe regarding your intention to find a boyfriend or girlfriend.
Here are some easy, inexpensive Feng Shui steps you can take to put your focus and intention on finding true love, and to reflect that intention in your home's layout and decor:
1. Does the artwork in your home represent people in solitude? When I entered one client's apartment for a New York City Feng Shui consultation, she had a big picture of Greta Garbo, the single Hollywood icon rumored to have declared “I want to be alone,” hanging in her dining room. Someone had purchased it as a gift for my client, but it did not reflect her desire to be in a relationship.
If you're seeking true love, make sure photos represent people in pairs or families. Avoid single people.
2. Select uplifting artwork - If looking at photos of other people in couples gets you depressed and only reminds you of what you lack, hang landscape photos or still-lifes that you enjoy, instead. Seek a sense of balance in whatever art you choose; be careful of choosing solitary objects that seem “lonely.” Be careful, too, of landscape photos depicting mountains. This imagery can lead to a sense of feeling blocked, while paintings of oceans or other open environments can be uplifting and inspirational.
3. Avoid displaying photos or mementos of ex-boyfriends. This seems obvious, but when pictures are in our home for a long time, we often don't notice them. They become a part of the background of our lives. Take the time to get rid of photos of exes (even if you parted on good terms.) You don't need the energy of the past weighing you down if you're really ready to find true love.
What will you add, remove or cherish in your space for romance?
If I had to think of an easy way to help you get started and learn EXACTLY how to create attraction fast with Feng Shui… I would tell you to go check out my eBook “Feng Shui Secrets: What Everyone Should Know About How To Be Successful With Feng Shui.”
You can learn the BASIC of how to create attraction of money, love and career success and I also share with you some great ideas for inexpensive or free ways to implement Feng Shui, no interior design or expensive decorating required. Go get more information here:
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Posted by Ken Lauher on Tue, Jan 03, 2012
Right now, as you're reading this (if you're at home) take a few moments to look around your house or apartment and consider if you would be comfortable sharing it with another person. Of course, our homes should reflect our personality and taste. But is your house so uniquely yours that it seems to say you don't have the space in your life for a significant other?
If you're interested in finding a soul mate, your home should reflect this. One red flag that your home could be keeping you from finding a boyfriend or girlfriend is if your space is too masculine or too feminine. If your home's chi has a strong sense of masculine or feminine energy, you may want to tone it down by introducing elements that represent the opposite gender.
The Ultimate Bachelor Pad? Instance, if a leather couch and dark earth tones give your home a masculine energy, considering softening it with lighter colors and softer textures. You don't have to pack up that 50-inch flat screen and home theater set-up with the giant subwoofers. But consider a few gender neutral or even feminine elements in artwork, throw pillows or other items. In the master bedroom, reds and pinks can soften an otherwise masculine room and help encourage romance. Fresh cut flowers or fresh fruit in the home can also add a feminine touch without being overtly “girly.”
Too Feminine?If your home still contains your doll collection from your youth and is decorated in pinks and purples with stuffed animals all around, consider packing up some of these toys (especially if they were given to you by ex-boyfriends) and adding some elements to make the space more “grown up.” Consider adding candles in scents like cinnamon, sandalwood, licorice or cucumber, which are said to appeal to men in particular. You want your home to be a space where anyone can feel comfortable.
What items could you remove or replace to help make your home support your relationship goals and desires? Leave a comment below.
If I had to think of an easy way to help you get started and learn EXACTLY how to create attraction fast with Feng Shui… I would tell you to go check out my eBook “Feng Shui Secrets: What Everyone Should Know About How To Be Successful With Feng Shui.”
You can learn the BASIC of how to create attraction of money, love and career success and I also share with you some great ideas for inexpensive or free ways to implement Feng Shui, no interior design or expensive decorating required. Go get more information here:
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Posted by Ken Lauher on Sat, Dec 31, 2011
In Feng Shui, our surroundings can reflect our inner thoughts and life. This is why I often talk about the stories your home tells and what they reveal about where you are, where you might be stuck, and what may be holding you back from finding love, money and the life of your dreams. The reverse can also be true; changing our environment can dramatically improve our mindset and give us the energy and inspiration to make real change in our lives, attract true love, become a money magnet and more!
We can make positive Feng Shui changes in our home or apartment to create more balance in our lives. Once we feel balanced and are living an authentic life, in touch with our true-self, money, love and all we desire naturally flows toward us.
Too Much? Too Little?
Many people believe Feng Shui is all about clearing clutter -- and I'm here to tell you it's not. It's all about balance. By all means, if you surround yourself with so much stuff that the energy can't flow, it may be time to moderate that.
But, if you're a person who feels comfortable surrounded by “noise,” including things and people, a minimalist approach may be too stark, and may even stifle your energy and your true self. If this is the case, think about what you truly treasure and hang on to it, making it a focal point in the room.
About Focal Points
By definition, a focal point is the center of attention or the “focus.” Choose items that reflect your goals, your true-self and your best life to make as focal points in a room, and decorate around them. Place objects around these focal points in pairs to strengthen your relationship or find true love, or in clusters of threes for natural balance.
Remember, less may be more, but Feng Shui is all about creating a space where you feel comfortable and can thrive.
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Ken
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