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Practice Knowing When To Stop

 
Alert yourself to recognizing when it's a good time to stop demanding, chasing, talking, walking, working, sleeping, playing, shopping, complaining, striving, and so on.

The more you're attached to needing and wanting and possessing, the more you lose in your relationship to the Tao. But when you know the time to stop, you say good-bye to the troubles that accrue for those who sacrifice arriving for a lifetime of striving.

Do The Tao Now

Pick an area of your life to practice releasing an attachment by deciding when to stop. For example, plan to leave ten minutes before you think you're done in the grocery store, or refrain yourself from getting another cup of coffee or writing one more personal e-mail. In a relationship, don't say anything else in a discussion that's going nowhere. Those are all examples of attachment to being or doing.

You can also practice detaching by giving something away. Just recently, for instance, my son surprised both of us by doing just that. I was admiring a new T-shirt he'd just purchased, and he said, "Here, Dad, you like this one so much that even though it's my favorite, I want you to have it." It was a simple, spontaneous letting go of an attachment, and both of us felt the wealth that is the fruit of generosity.

- Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life by Dr. Wayne Dyer


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I remember in the book "White Oleander" (also a movie) the mother who was very ecentric asked her daughter if she had to go to a deserted island by her self what would she take? And the mother added if you are strong you would take anything. Don't know why I started thinking about that after reading the daily wisdom. But Is there truth to that? Is it wrong to have attchments to worldly possessions. Most of the world is truley made up of the teachings of "Mother Culture" and our never ending pursuit of gaining access to where "they lock up the food" to use Ishmael's words. ("Ishmael, by Daniel Quinn..Brilliant!)Anyhow in practicing the Tao should we only be holding on to memories? Is this what the Buddist monks practice?
Posted @ Tuesday, May 11, 2010 8:13 AM by Mel
Wow Ken, everytime you post something, it is actually what i needed to hear and learn at that time being. I really want to thank you for all the valuable wisdom you are imparting to enormous amount of people.
Posted @ Wednesday, May 12, 2010 12:10 AM by Ann Fernandez
I agree, Ann!  
Ken seems to have a "just at the right time, just as it was meant to be" timing approach. It's wonderful. Thanks once again, Ken. You inspire. Always. Appreciate your encouragement [smiles]
Posted @ Wednesday, May 12, 2010 2:25 AM by Samantha
Thank you. I truly appreciate your comments and sharing here. Everyday I do seek out the right message that I feel will add value for the day. Thanks for noticing and thank you for your participation as this is a community for those exploring their internal selves and to be at peace and one with the universe.
Posted @ Wednesday, May 12, 2010 6:47 AM by Ken Lauher
Dear Ken, you are very right about giving away something you are attached to. I like your comment to it. I'm always giving something away and it really makes one feel good to make someone else happy. Thanks. Rita
Posted @ Thursday, May 13, 2010 6:29 AM by Rita
Thanks, Ken, for this offering...I have found in my own experience that I need to stop myself, too, and this has become a practice for me in developing true self discipline....related to overdoing vs genuine effort...so I am using this offering now as a mindfulness bell for me to get off the internet right now and write no more emails..this is my last one. The 10 minute idea is helpful to me...I find myself having difficulty recognizing the signs my body and mind are telling me to stop...they are so subtle and then all at once I'm in over my head in deep stress for not stopping soon enough...like now...must stop right now! Bye all. Thank you...Sharon
Posted @ Thursday, May 13, 2010 10:10 PM by Sharon
Yes, Sharon... learn to follow the chi and stop forcing things when there is real resistance.
Posted @ Thursday, May 13, 2010 10:28 PM by Ken Lauher
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