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From Emotional Stress To Inner Peace In Minutes

 
Inner PeaceDo you find yourself at times getting so frustrated and emotional over what someone said, the way they approached you or how they responded?

Have you then continued to keep this in your head and review it over and over again? I know I have. The interesting thing is that this can really put you in a tail spin as you continue to dwell on the issue and think about how you can bite back or make the other person feel bad or better yet, get even. You continue this spin cycle until you work yourself into such a state of mind that you can't do anything but feel stuck and incapacitated. That you're so involved in your head that you must share it with anyone who will listen. What should you do when this happens?

Break the pattern! When you continue to force your mind to dwell on issues that cause you emotional stress, notice what state your body is in. It is in the constant fight or flight mode and if you stay in this place long enough, you will begin to invite illness, physical harm and psychological frustration that will attract more of the same.

How to break the pattern? First, be aware that you are dwelling on this issue and notice how your body feels. Ask yourself, is this state of mind supporting me in my ultimate goals and vision? And then ask yourself, what can I do now that will support my goals and vision? What state of mind would be productive for me and those around me?

Try this: Think of a word that you enjoy, that rejuvenates you, brings you peace, invites love in and helps you view the world in a "glass half full" space. The word that I personally use is "Playful." The next time you notice yourself getting into the spin cycle of your mind that causes emotional trauma and physical stress, try repeating your word 9 times. If no result, try repeating it 36 times. And for those times that are really difficult, repeat the word aloud or silently to yourself 108 times.

What this does is to help you break the pattern that your mind puts you in and provides something beneficial to focus on. When you do this, notice how your body feels afterwards. If you don't feel better, continue to use your word until you can return to your true-self and be in a positive state of mind and body where your greatest success and happiness reside.

What will your word be?

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I wish that "this" daily words of wisdom would have come through two months ago. A couple of months back I had a situtation that caused me to replay the incident over and over again in my head. To the point that I did make myself wuite ill. To the point that I had an infection in my lower intestine.(the base of your immune system) Anyhow that was the second time in my life that that had happened to me. When I realized that my illness and the cause of my illness was all related...I can't say I used a particular "word". But I did however decided that my mind and spirit was caught in a vicious cycle. I wasn't regretful over it but I realized that it was in the "past". And my constant rewind was preventing my body and spirit move on. Or better yet, I could flow with chi in and around me because I was holding excess baggage. So in the future should that situation happen again I will try and find a word or phrase that will bring me back to peace.
Posted @ Tuesday, April 27, 2010 7:14 AM by Melanie Dorsey
Is "Trust" a good word to use?
Posted @ Tuesday, April 27, 2010 7:36 AM by marc daniels
Mine's "aloha" ;)
Posted @ Tuesday, April 27, 2010 8:33 AM by Dora
I can definitely relate to what you are saying, Ken. 
And to Melanie, I feel for you. 
Although I have found the practice of thinking of a word that brings joy and fulfillment may be useful, I have often found that this method is not enough to break the pattern and alter the energetic feeling of the experience and consequences for the body. 
 
So I would like to add that the repetition of a mantra might also be helpful. 
 
If possible a visit to a sauna or doing physical exercise could be most beneficial to sweat out toxics and to transform the energy. 
 
Listening to music - also very effective. 
 
Feeling the feeling and crying can be a healing experience. Tears hold essences of reparative natural substances. 
 
I hope this video from one of my favorite artists, Dechen Shak Dagsay is helpful. 
 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bkS1HounA7Q 
 
Beyond Singing is also wonderful. 
 
You may listen to excerpts on their web site: 
 
http://www.beyondsinging.com/english/home/detail/article/76619/0/spiritual-message---tina-turner-inspired-by-deepak-chopra-und-rumi/ 
 
All my very best, 
Elaine 
 
With love, 
Elaine 
 
Posted @ Tuesday, April 27, 2010 8:48 AM by Elaine Springer
Dear Ken, my stress is a different kind. It's more of a family illness. I stay so stressed out from one family memeber to another being sick. How do I stay focused on the good side of it? I do turn to the Lord, but at times I feel so wrapped up in it that I lose track of what is the most important. Thanks so much for your input . Rita
Posted @ Tuesday, April 27, 2010 10:52 AM by Rita
Speaking of chanting mantras, check out Deva Premal & Miten. I saw them in concert...they are amazing!!
Posted @ Tuesday, April 27, 2010 9:34 PM by Merrie
Marc, I'm not here to tell you what is good and not good. It is all just information. Listen to your true self and it will steer you in the right direction.
Posted @ Tuesday, April 27, 2010 11:24 PM by Ken Lauher
Rita, I ask you to try this exercise when you find yourself stressed out regarding family member illnesses. As you find yourself worrying and stressing, repeat your word and notice how you feel.
Posted @ Tuesday, April 27, 2010 11:25 PM by Ken Lauher
Wow! I SO incredibly needed this today. I love how the Universe gives me exactly what I need when I need it. Thank you!!
Posted @ Wednesday, November 16, 2011 3:33 AM by Candi
And by the way, my word is "Sparkle"! Thanks again!!
Posted @ Wednesday, November 16, 2011 4:05 AM by Candi
Candi, you are more than welcome. So glad you enjoyed the article and I love your word! Sparkle!
Posted @ Wednesday, November 16, 2011 11:25 AM by Ken Lauher
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