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Release Toxic Emotions

 

Release Toxic Emotions

   Although we are all aware of the health-depleting effects of toxic substances and toxic foods, toxic emotions are often the most harmful accelerators of the aging process.

   Whenever you carry resentment, hostility, regret, or grievances in your heart, your vitality is eroded. Try this simple practice:
- Find a quiet place, sit comfortably, and close your eyes.

- Now take a few minutes to settle your mind with a meditation.

- After a while, bring your attention into your body and scan it for any area of tension or resistance. If you identify a place of congestion, have the intention to let it go.

- Bring your attention into your heart and acknowledge all the things for which you feel grateful.

- Now listen to your heart and ask yourself the question, "What am I carrying with me from the past that is no longer serving me well in the present?"

- If you identify any encumbrances in your heart, have the intention to release them now. Let go of any resentments, grievances, or regrets that you find.

- As you release these toxic emotions, see if you can find the gift that this toxic emotion was hiding. For example, if you felt pain as a result of someone's behavior, the gift may be that you learned more self-reliance.

- Make the commitment to regularly acknowledge gratitude and relinquish all grievances from the heart.
   Encumbering your heart with toxic emotions prevents you from fully experiencing the magic, mystery, and joy that is available to your right now. Make the commitment to release the resentments, regrets, and grievances that are causing more harm to you than anyone else.

   The process of releasing emotional toxins is similar to that for releasing physical ones. You must first have a clear intention that you want to replace life-depleting emotions with life-enhancing ones. The metabolism of regret and resentment into compassion and forgiveness can dramatically awaken your body, mind, and spirit to your primordial vital energy.

   Write about the history that created the toxic emotion, describing both what happened and how you feel as a result of the situation. Studies have shown that journaling about upsetting emotional experiences can improve your immune function, as well as help you gain clarity and insight.

   In his book, Nonviolent Communication, psychologist Marshall Rosenberg teaches an emotional vocabulary that avoids victimization. Steer clear from words like abandoned, abused, neglected, and mistreated; instead, describe the actual feelings of anger, sadness, loneliness, and fear that the circumstances evoked.

   Once you have written about the circumstances leading to the toxic emotions, perform some physical ritual with the intention of releasing the hold these feelings have on your soul.

   Do some deep breathing, get a massage, pound a pillow, dance with abandon, or go for a long run until your body has released the tension that is stored with the emotion.

   Then, open your heart to feelings that generate the age-reversing emotions of forgiveness, harmony, laughter, and love rather than the entropy evoking onces of anguish, resentment, regret, and despair.

Toxic emotions are often the most harmful accelerators of the aging process. Commit to releasing them from your hear and mind.


- Grow Younger, Live Longer by Deepak Chopra, M.D. and David Simon, M.D.

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Comments

Don't forget to forgive yourself for holding on to the negative emotions. 
 
 
 
I forgave my father for stuff from fifty years back yet still felt bad until I forgave myself for feeling so resentful and angry my whole life.
Posted @ Wednesday, October 07, 2009 6:36 AM by Mike Adam
I seek to expand through this process each day, it's great to have it put in simple workable steps 
 
thank you 
 
Shasha x
Posted @ Wednesday, October 07, 2009 9:26 AM by Shasha Daoud
I agree with Mike, forgiving yourself is key.  
 
I have always had a difficult time forgiving myself, even for the smallest thing. I could do poorly on an exam and beat myself up for months, if not years. Said something I shouldn't have? Agonize over it for nearly a decade.  
 
Forgive yourself and you will find it easier to forgive others.
Posted @ Thursday, October 08, 2009 1:20 AM by Tolana
Great article. We sometimes blame ourselves for things that happen, yet there is a lesson in every situation. To help let go, learn to ask yourself who was/is responsible for what happened. In some cases, we are responsible. In others, another party is responsible. In either case, there is a lesson to be learned and/or a change needed in lifestyle or belief or attitude. The lesson, once accepted and implemented, can be a precursor to letting go and healing.
Posted @ Thursday, February 03, 2011 7:30 PM by Anonymous
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