The Path To Personal Freedom

   In society, we have agreed that it is not safe to ask questions; we have agreed that if people love us, they should know what we want or how we feel.

   When we believe something, we assume we are right about it to the point that we will destroy relationships in order to defend our position. But with clear communication, our word becomes impeccable, and all of our relationships start to change - not only with our partner, but also with everyone else.

   Often, when you begin a relationship with someone you like, you only see what you want to see, and you deny there are things you don't like about the person. You lie to yourself just to make yourself right, and to justify why you like that person.

   Then you make assumptions, and one of the assumptions is, "My love will change this person." But this is not true. Your love will not change anybody. If others change, it's because they want to change, not because you can change them.

   Let's say one day something happens between you and your partner, and you get hurt. Suddenly you see in this person what you didn't want to see before, only now you have to justify your emotional pain by blaming the other person for your choices.

   Real love is accepting other people the way they are without trying to change them. If we try to change them, this means we don't really like them. If you decide to live with someone, it is always better to make that agreement with someone who is exactly the way you want him or her to be. It is much easier to find someone whom you don't have to change than try to change someone.

   The biggest assumption that humans make is that everyone sees life the way we do. We assume that others think the way we think, feel the way we feel, judge the way we judge, and abuse the way we abuse. And this is why we have a fear of being ourselves around others. Because we think everyone else will judge us, victimize us, abuse us, and blame us as we do ourselves.

   Becoming aware of these habits and understanding the importance of this agreement is the first step, but information or an idea is merely the seed in your mind. What will really make the difference is action. Taking action over and over again will strengthen your will, nurture the seed, and establish a solid foundation for the new habit to grow. After many repetitions these new agreements will become second nature.

   Don't make assumptions. By making this one agreement a habit, our lives are transformed completely. What we need comes to us easily because spirit moves freely through us. Magic happens in our lives. This is the mastery of love, the mastery of gratitude, and the mastery of life. This is the path to personal freedom.

- The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz



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