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Mindful Meditation

Turn a toxic behavior into a mindful meditation. This means shifting into a mode of witnessing awareness while you are performing the action. If you want to eliminate smoking, focus your full attention on the action. Sit quietly and observe yourself as you slowly reach for your pack, remove a cigarette, light up, and inhale. Feel the sensations in your body and stop when your need has been fulfilled.

Very few people actually enjoy their first smoke or taste of whiskey, which reflects the inherent wisdom of the body. It is only after you have overridden your body's signals with false mental messages - "I look cool when I smoke." "Drinking alcohol makes me grown-up." "Doing drugs is hip." - that your physiological impulses stop being sent in effort to conserve energy, if we do not heed our internal signals, the body stops sending them. Performing the habitual action with "beginner's awareness" will help you experience the honest effects of the substance.

- Grow Younger, Live Longer by Deepak Chopra, M.D., and David Simon, M.D.

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Comments

GREAT topic, a little clarification:  
 
 
 
Respectfully, this comes from a man who does not smoke, although his message is apt for firt-time smokers. The vast majority of people who smoke are addicts now. The nature of addiction is that smoking relieves the physical and psychological craving an addict experiences when the nicotine serum in their blood dips below a certain point. Mindfulness will show them both how crappy they feel when they 'need' a hit, and how relieved they feel when they smoke. Period.  
 
 
 
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If someone resolves to quit smoking, mindfulness can be used to arrest an addiction. This is where I would have liked the quote to go. You must resolve to deny yourself temporary 'relief' that a hit provides when your addiction is active, until you crave no more. This is an investment worth making, by the way. You can use mindfulness to help yourself heal through the phases of (first) withdrawal, and then (second) re-writing the remaining triggers that prompt you to smoke. While withdrawal is only a few days, trigger busting takes longer. Knowing it will end and recognizing triggers as merely triggers, and particularly watching them come and go until they are so few it is laughable (to eventually none) is very self-awakening and rewarding. I personally know dozens of people (and have read of thousands more) who have accomplished this in this way, although they did not use the term mindfulness.  
 
 
 
Can I quote a website/message board where I learned this on your blog to direct anyone who is interested in doing this? It is run by nicotine cessation counsellors. I have been nicotine free for almost 6 years.  
 
 
 
I enjoy your blog very much. Thank you. 
 
Kathleen Craig 
 
Toronto, Canada 
 
 
 
Posted @ Friday, August 21, 2009 9:16 AM by Kay
Addendum: 
 
I learned the technique we were using was called mindfulness by studying the teachings of the venerable Zen master Thich Nhat Hanh, and then having it confirmed in work at one of his retreats in 2005. In the quit-smoking group, we call it Embracing a Crave.
Posted @ Friday, August 21, 2009 9:29 AM by Kay
Kay - Thank you so much for sharing this. Always appreciated.
Posted @ Sunday, August 23, 2009 7:57 PM by Ken Lauher
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